Why I Cry at Weddings
WHY I CRY AT WEDDINGS: The Holiness of Marriage
There’s someting about a wedding that brings tears to my eyes—not because of the flowers, the dress or even the music. I cry because the ceremony is sacred. The Christian music is holy. When two people stand before God and promise forever, I’m struck by the holiness of marriage, the beauty of covenant love designed by the Creator Himself.
A Glimpse of Heaven on Earth
When the doors open and the bride begins her walk down the aisle, I see more than lace and beauty. I see a reflection of Christ and His Bride—-the Church.
Marriage was never just man’s idea: it was God’s. Fron the beginning of time He declared, It is not good for man to be alone.” And in his infinite wisdom, He created companionship, partnership, and love that mirrors His relationship with us.
In that moment—-two hearts, two stories, two souls becoming one—-we witness something heavenly. A divine reflection of a love that never fails.
So they are no longer two, but one flesh Therefore what God has joined together let no one separate.” Matthew 19:6
Not a Contract But a Covenant
Our culture often treats marriage like a contract—-something that can be broken when it’s no longer convenient. Or if one person fails, the deal is off. But God calls it a covenant—a sacred vow, sealed in His presence and strengthened by His Spirit.
When a husband and wife say I do, they are not just promising to love each other when it’s easy. They’re vowing to love when it’s hard, to forgive when it hurts, to stay when walking away might seem simpler. And when a couple keeps Christ at the center, they draw closer not only to each other but to Him.
A covenannt says:
I am committed to you even when feelings fade.
I will choose love when it’s not easy.
I stand with you, not because you’re perfect, but because God called us to this together.
That’s why I cry—because marriage isn’t just about romance, it’s about redemption. It’s a picture of God’s faithfulness, His mercy, and His relentless love for us.
The Holiness Found in Ordinary Moments
After the vows and the celebration fade, holiness continues—-quietly—in the everyday moments. In the morning coffee shared before work. It’s praying together over decisions. It’s in choosing peace over pride during an argument. In whispered prayers over children and family. In the decision to speak gently instead of harshly. In the forgiveness that keeps love alive.
True holiness in marriage isn’t glamorous, It’s the steady “yes” we give each day—to our spouse and to God.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12
Tears of Gratitude
After almost 32 year oof marriage, I’ve learned that those tears I shed at weddings aren’t just emotion—they’re gratitude. Gratitude for a God who created love so deep and sacred. Gratitude for the grace that holds two very imperfect people together. And gratitude for the reminder that, in a world that changes by the minute, God’s design for marraige remains holy and unchanging.
Let marriage be held in honor among all. Hebrews 13:4
Closing Reflection
So yes, I’ll keep crying at weddings. Not because of the beauty of the moment, thought that’s part of it. But because every “I do” whispered before God echoes His eternal promise.
I will never leave you nor foraske you.
Heavenly Father, Thank you for the gift of marriage—a reflection of your perfect love, Bless every heart reading these words, whether married, preparing for marriage, or praying for restoration. Teach us to honor the sacred covenant you designed, to love with patience, forgive with grace, and keep you at the center of all we do. May our homes be filled with peace, faith and the kind of love that endures all things. In Jesus name, Amen.
There’s someting about a wedding that brings tears to my eyes—not because of the flowers, the dress or even the music. I cry because the ceremony is sacred. The Christian music is holy. When two people stand before God and promise forever, I’m struck by the holiness of marriage, the beauty of covenant love designed by the Creator Himself.
A Glimpse of Heaven on Earth
When the doors open and the bride begins her walk down the aisle, I see more than lace and beauty. I see a reflection of Christ and His Bride—-the Church.
Marriage was never just man’s idea: it was God’s. Fron the beginning of time He declared, It is not good for man to be alone.” And in his infinite wisdom, He created companionship, partnership, and love that mirrors His relationship with us.
In that moment—-two hearts, two stories, two souls becoming one—-we witness something heavenly. A divine reflection of a love that never fails.
So they are no longer two, but one flesh Therefore what God has joined together let no one separate.” Matthew 19:6
Not a Contract But a Covenant
Our culture often treats marriage like a contract—-something that can be broken when it’s no longer convenient. Or if one person fails, the deal is off. But God calls it a covenant—a sacred vow, sealed in His presence and strengthened by His Spirit.
When a husband and wife say I do, they are not just promising to love each other when it’s easy. They’re vowing to love when it’s hard, to forgive when it hurts, to stay when walking away might seem simpler. And when a couple keeps Christ at the center, they draw closer not only to each other but to Him.
A covenannt says:
I am committed to you even when feelings fade.
I will choose love when it’s not easy.
I stand with you, not because you’re perfect, but because God called us to this together.
That’s why I cry—because marriage isn’t just about romance, it’s about redemption. It’s a picture of God’s faithfulness, His mercy, and His relentless love for us.
The Holiness Found in Ordinary Moments
After the vows and the celebration fade, holiness continues—-quietly—in the everyday moments. In the morning coffee shared before work. It’s praying together over decisions. It’s in choosing peace over pride during an argument. In whispered prayers over children and family. In the decision to speak gently instead of harshly. In the forgiveness that keeps love alive.
True holiness in marriage isn’t glamorous, It’s the steady “yes” we give each day—to our spouse and to God.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12
Tears of Gratitude
After almost 32 year oof marriage, I’ve learned that those tears I shed at weddings aren’t just emotion—they’re gratitude. Gratitude for a God who created love so deep and sacred. Gratitude for the grace that holds two very imperfect people together. And gratitude for the reminder that, in a world that changes by the minute, God’s design for marraige remains holy and unchanging.
Let marriage be held in honor among all. Hebrews 13:4
Closing Reflection
So yes, I’ll keep crying at weddings. Not because of the beauty of the moment, thought that’s part of it. But because every “I do” whispered before God echoes His eternal promise.
I will never leave you nor foraske you.
Heavenly Father, Thank you for the gift of marriage—a reflection of your perfect love, Bless every heart reading these words, whether married, preparing for marriage, or praying for restoration. Teach us to honor the sacred covenant you designed, to love with patience, forgive with grace, and keep you at the center of all we do. May our homes be filled with peace, faith and the kind of love that endures all things. In Jesus name, Amen.
